When you hear the word “etiquette,” you might imagine a fancy dinner where everyone eats with the right fork and properly lays the cloth napkin over their lap.
However, it’s really all about basic manners and showing consideration towards the people around you. There are plenty of unspoken rules that are part of basic decency, but many people break them without even knowing it. These missteps, faux pas, or whatever you want to call them are incredibly common in society, and that’s a real shame.
1. Interrupting people mid-conversation
Cutting someone off while they’re speaking can feel harmless, especially if you’re excited to share your thoughts, but it can come across as dismissive or disrespectful. Letting people finish before jumping in shows that you value their input and helps conversations flow more naturally. Plus, it’s not like what you have to say can’t wait a few more minutes, right?
2. Not saying “thank you” for small gestures
Source: Pexels It’s easy to forget to thank someone for holding the door or passing you something. These little gestures often go unnoticed, but expressing gratitude for them makes a big difference. A simple “thanks” shows you appreciate the effort, no matter how small it seems.
3. Checking your phone during conversations
Even a quick glance at your phone while someone is talking can give off a vibe of disinterest. It might not seem like a big deal, but it can make the other person feel ignored or unimportant. Putting your phone away during conversations shows respect and attentiveness.
4. Not acknowledging someone’s greeting
When someone says “hello” or smiles at you, failing to respond can seem cold or rude. Even if you’re distracted, a quick smile or nod in return goes a long way. Acknowledging greetings makes social interactions feel warmer and more considerate.
5. Talking loudly on your phone in public spaces
Whether you’re on a train, in a café, or waiting in a queue, having a loud phone conversation can disrupt everyone around you. It’s easy to forget how much noise you’re making, but keeping your voice low shows consideration for other people sharing the space.
6. Forgetting to introduce people
When you’re with friends or colleagues who don’t know each other, skipping introductions can lead to awkwardness. Taking a moment to introduce everyone helps people feel included and makes interactions smoother. It’s a small gesture that can help you feel more connected to other people, and them to you.
7. Not RSVPing to invitations
Ignoring an invitation or waiting until the last minute to respond can make planning difficult for the host. Whether you’re going or not, letting them know promptly is polite. It shows respect for their time and effort in organising the event.
8. Standing too close to people in queues
Personal space is important, especially in public settings. Standing too close in a queue can make people feel uncomfortable or anxious. Keeping a reasonable distance shows awareness and respect for people’s boundaries, even if you’re in a hurry.
9. Not covering your mouth when you cough or sneeze
Forgetting to cover your mouth when coughing or sneezing is a hygiene faux pas that can easily spread germs. Using a tissue or the inside of your elbow helps protect those around you. It’s a simple act of courtesy that keeps everyone healthier. No one wants your germs!
10. Forgetting to say “excuse me”
Whether you’re squeezing past someone or accidentally bumping into them, failing to say “excuse me” can seem thoughtless. This small phrase acknowledges the interaction and shows respect. It helps smooth over minor inconveniences or disruptions.
11. Not returning shopping trolleys
Leaving a shopping trolley in the middle of the car park may seem harmless, but it creates extra work for staff and inconvenience for other shoppers. Taking a few extra seconds to return the trolley shows respect for shared spaces and the people who use them.
12. Speaking while wearing headphones
Talking to someone while wearing headphones—even if the music is off—can make you seem distracted or disinterested. Removing them shows that you’re fully engaged in the conversation. It’s a simple way to make it clear that the person has your full attention.
13. Ignoring queue etiquette
Skipping ahead in a queue or not waiting your turn can frustrate everyone behind you. Even in informal settings, queue-jumping is seen as inconsiderate. Being patient and respecting the line shows fairness and consideration for other people.
14. Not holding the door for people behind you
Letting a door swing shut on someone right behind you can seem thoughtless, even if you don’t mean to. Holding the door for a moment, especially when someone’s hands are full, is a small courtesy that makes public spaces more pleasant for everyone.
15. Dominating conversations without realising it
Sometimes, enthusiasm can lead you to take over conversations without meaning to. Talking too much or not giving anyone else a chance to speak can make interactions feel one-sided. Zipping your lips to let other people share their thoughts makes for better, more balanced discussions.
