Going to a party alone might seem like no big deal if you’re used to being the life of the party, but for most people, it can be a nerve-wracking experience.
You could just skip out on the whole thing and stay home on the sofa, but where’s the fun in that? Go armed with some one-liners, and you’ll make new friends in no time.
1. “I’m [your name], and I’m on a mission to try every snack at this buffet.”
Food is always a great conversation starter. This is a bit corny, but that’s good because it shows you’re up for a laugh and gives people a chance to join your “mission”. Plus, who doesn’t love a good snack?
2. “I promise I’m not a gate-crasher, [mutual friend] invited me.”
A bit of self-deprecating humour can put people at ease. This line also gives you a chance to mention your connection to the party, which helps other people place you in the social web.
3. “I’m rubbish with names, but I’m great at remembering favourite colours.”
This quirky introduction can lead to a fun game where you ask people their favourite colours instead of their names. It’s memorable and takes the pressure off remembering loads of new names. You might even end up in some delightful debates about the merits of cerulean versus turquoise by the end of the night.
4. “I heard there’s a dog here somewhere, and I’m determined to find it.”
If there’s a pet at the party, this is your golden ticket. Even if there isn’t, it can lead to chats about pets and maybe some phone-scrolling to show off furry friends. You might end up with a whole group of animal lovers sharing funny pet stories and comparing notes on the best local dog parks.
5. “I’m practising my small talk. How am I doing so far?”
Honesty can be disarming, and this shows you’re putting yourself out there and might even get you some friendly coaching on party chat. People often appreciate the candour and might share their own tips for navigating social situations.
6. “I’ve got a jar of bad jokes. Want to hear one?”
Prepare a few silly jokes beforehand. Even if they’re groaners, they can break the ice and show you don’t take yourself too seriously. You might get into an impromptu joke-off, with other people chiming in with their own terrible puns and one-liners.
7. “I’m on a quest to find the best dancing partner here.”
If there’s music playing, this line can get you onto the dance floor. It’s playful and gives you a “reason” to chat with different people throughout the night. You might even discover some hidden dance talents or bond over shared rhythmic challenges.
8. “I’m terrible at party games, but I’m always up for learning.”
Source: Unsplash This can be a great way to join a game that’s already happening. It sets low expectations and shows you’re willing to have a go, which people often find endearing. You might surprise yourself (and other people) by discovering a hidden talent for charades or Pictionary.
9. “I brought extra snacks. Want to be my partner in crime?”
Source: Unsplash If you’ve actually brought something to share, this is a winner. It immediately gives you something to offer and can lead to chats about favourite foods or party etiquette. Maybe you’ll end up swapping recipes or planning future potluck gatherings with your new snack-loving friends.
10. “I’m trying to guess everyone’s star sign. Let me have a go at yours.”
Source: Unsplash Whether you believe in astrology or not, this can be a fun game. It gives you a reason to chat and can lead to all sorts of interesting conversations. You might end up learning about different zodiac systems or hearing hilarious stories about people’s experiences with horoscopes.
11. “I’m collecting fun facts tonight. Got any to share?”
Source: Unsplash This puts the ball in their court and can lead to some fascinating chats. People often enjoy sharing random bits of knowledge they’ve picked up. You could end the night with a treasure trove of trivia, from obscure historical events to mind-blowing science facts.
12. “I’m practising my telepathy. What am I thinking right now?”
Source: Unsplash A bit silly, but it can get laughs. It’s a playful way to start a conversation and shows you don’t mind being a bit goofy. You could get into a hilarious guessing game, with increasingly outlandish “thoughts” being suggested.
13. “I’ve decided to say yes to everything tonight. What should I do next?”
Source: Unsplash This can lead to some fun interactions. Just be prepared to follow through (within reason, of course) and have some amusing stories to tell by the end of the night. You might actually learn a new dance move, try an exotic food, or join an impromptu karaoke session.
14. “I’m on a mission to learn one new thing from every person here.”
Source: Unsplash Saying this gives you a built-in conversation starter with everyone you meet. People often enjoy sharing their knowledge or experiences. By the end of the night, you could have a diverse collection of new facts, skills, or perspectives to take home with you.
15. “I’m trying to piece together how everyone knows each other. Want to help me solve the mystery?”
Source: Unsplash If you’re looking for a great way to learn about the social connections at the party, this is a good choice, especially since it gives you a reason to chat with lots of different people. You might uncover some interesting connections or even long-lost friendships in the process.
16. “I’m practising my accents tonight. Mind if I try yours?”
This can lead to some laughs, especially if you’re rubbish at accents. It’s a light-hearted way to get people talking about where they’re from. You might end up learning about different dialects or hearing funny stories about language mix-ups.
17. “I’ve got a bet going that I can make five new friends tonight. Want to help me win?”
This is playful and gives people a reason to chat with you. It also sets a friendly tone for your interactions throughout the night. You might find yourself with not just five, but a whole room full of new acquaintances by the time the party winds down.
