It’s weird how sometimes it’s the stuff that matters the least that causes the most drama in a relationship.
The longer you’re together, the easier it is to let pointless bickering get in the way of your connection, and while many couples can (thankfully) let it go, others allow these annoyances to fester. It’s pointless to get up in arms over these things, so why do so many people do it?
1. Who controls the TV remote
Source: Unsplash It’s just a little piece of plastic, but you’d think it was the key to the universe. One person wants to channel surf, the other prefers to stick to one programme. Before you know it, you’re having a full-blown debate about the merits of reality TV versus documentaries.
2. Leaving the toilet seat up or down
Source: Unsplash Up or down, that is the question. It’s such a tiny thing, but it can cause such big arguments. One half of the couple insists it should always be down, the other can’t see what the fuss is about. Suddenly, you’re keeping score of bathroom etiquette.
3. The ‘correct’ way to load the dishwasher
Who knew there were so many opinions about where the forks should go? One person has a system, the other just shoves things in wherever they fit. It’s not exactly earth-shattering stuff, but it can lead to some pretty passionate discussions.
4. The thermostat setting
One’s always cold, the other’s always hot. Finding that perfect temperature seems impossible. You end up with one person wrapped in blankets while the other is fanning themselves dramatically. It’s like living with your own personal weather system.
5. Squeezing the toothpaste tube from the middle rather than the bottom
Who knew toothpaste could be so controversial? One person carefully rolls from the bottom, the other squeezes with wild abandon. It’s not exactly relationship-ending stuff, but it can lead to some eye-rolling and exasperated sighs.
6. The ‘right’ way to hang the toilet roll
Over or under? It’s a debate as old as time (or at least as old as toilet rolls). Some people have very strong opinions about this, turning a simple bathroom task into a statement about order and chaos in the universe.
7. Leaving dirty dishes in the sink overnight
To some, a few dishes in the sink is no big deal. To others, it’s a sign of impending doom and the breakdown of society. It’s amazing how a couple of unwashed mugs can turn into a metaphor for responsibility and respect in the relationship.
8. The definition of ‘on time’
For one, being on time means arriving 15 minutes early. For the other, it means rushing in just as the event is starting. Cue arguments about respect, stress levels, and the nature of time itself. Who knew punctuality could be so philosophical?
9. Folding laundry correctly
It’s just clothes, right? Wrong. Apparently, there’s a right way and a wrong way to fold everything from socks to fitted sheets. One half of the couple might refuse to let the other near the laundry basket, turning a simple chore into a solo performance.
10. The ‘correct’ way to make the bed
Hospital corners or loose and comfy? Decorative pillows or just the ones you sleep on? Making the bed can turn into a daily negotiation. It’s just where you sleep, but somehow it becomes a reflection of your entire personality.
11. Putting empty containers back in the fridge
Source: Unsplash Why, oh why, would someone put an empty milk carton back in the fridge? It’s not a big deal, but it can lead to disproportionate levels of frustration. Suddenly, it’s not about the milk, it’s about consideration and thoughtfulness.
12. The speed at which one partner drives
Too fast, too slow — there’s no winning this one. One person is gripping the door handle for dear life, while the other is urging them to get a move on. It’s amazing how a simple car journey can turn into a referendum on risk assessment and efficiency.
13. Leaving cabinet doors open
Source: Unsplash To the person who leaves them open, it’s no big deal. To the person who closes them, it’s like living in a fun house of horrors. How hard is it to close a door? Apparently, it’s harder than quantum physics for some people.
14. The volume of the TV
One person needs it loud enough to hear every whisper, the other thinks anything above a murmur is deafening. You end up with one person straining to hear while the other winces at every sound effect. It’s like living with your own personal volume war.
15. Putting a new toilet roll on the holder
It takes all of five seconds, but for some reason, it’s easier to balance the new roll on top of the empty cardboard tube. This tiny act (or lack thereof) can lead to disproportionate levels of annoyance. It’s not rocket science, but sometimes it seems like it is.
16. The ‘right’ amount of time to spend getting ready
One person is ready in 10 minutes, the other needs an hour. Cue eye-rolling, foot-tapping, and passive-aggressive comments about being late. It’s amazing how the simple act of getting dressed can turn into a time management seminar.
17. Leaving shoes in the middle of the floor
To the person who does it, it’s convenient. To the person who trips over them, it’s a health hazard and a sign of disrespect. Who knew footwear could be so emotionally charged? It’s just shoes, but somehow it becomes a metaphor for consideration in the relationship.
18. The proper way to pack for a trip
Source: Unsplash One’s a meticulous planner with coordinated outfits, the other throws random items in a bag five minutes before leaving. Packing for a trip can turn into a clash of life philosophies. It’s not just about clothes, it’s about approaches to life, apparently.
