Sometimes, even when you’re enjoying a conversation, it’s reached its natural conclusion or you need to be on your way. However, the person you’re talking to isn’t taking the hint. Yikes! You don’t want to be rude, but you do want to wrap thigs up ASAP. Here’s how to do it without making things awkward or offending them.
1. Be honest about your time constraints.
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If you need to leave, don’t make up a fake excuse. Just be straightforward and say, “I’m sorry, but I have to run. I have a meeting/appointment/deadline that I can’t miss.” People appreciate honesty, and they’ll understand that you have other commitments. If they don’t, are they really worth talking to in the first place?
2. Give them a genuine compliment.
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Ending a conversation on a positive note will always leave a good (and lasting!) impression. Find something genuine to compliment the person on, whether it’s their ideas, accomplishments, or personal qualities. Say something like, “I really enjoyed hearing your opinions on this. It’s given me a lot to think about.” Or, “I really admire how dedicated you are to your work. It’s actually really inspiring.” Avoid generic or insincere compliments, though. People can usually tell when you’re being fake.
3. Offer to continue the conversation later.
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If you’re enjoying the discussion but need to get going, let the person know that you’re happy to talk to them again another time. Say something like, “I wish we could keep talking, but I have to go. Would you be open to grabbing coffee next week and picking up where we left off?” This shows that you value whey have to say and want to hear more of it. Make sure to follow through on your invitation, though. Don’t make empty promises that you have no intention of keeping.
4. Introduce them to someone else and make a swift exit.
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If you’re at a networking event or in a social setting, ending a conversation can be as simple as introducing the person to someone else. Say something like, “I’ve really loved talking to you, but I don’t want to monopolize your time. Have you met Sarah? She’s also interested in [insert topic here]. I think you two would have a lot to talk about.” This not only ends the conversation gracefully but also shows that you’re thinking about their interests and want to help them make new connections. Just make sure the introduction is relevant and not just a random pairing. Also, make sure “Sarah” is cool with it, or she’ll be giving you the evil eye in no time!
5. Wrap things up with a recap.
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Before ending the conversation, take a moment to sum up the main points of what you’ve been talking about. This shows that you were actually listening and taking in what was being said. Say something like, “So, just to make sure I understood everything, we agreed to [yada yada]. Did I miss anything?” This sends a pretty clear message that you’re trying to bring things to a conclusion.
6. Ask for their phone number/email address/Insta account, whatever.
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If you want to stay in touch with the person, ending the conversation is the perfect opportunity to ask how you can get in touch with them again. Ask if they want to exchange phone numbers or if they want you to follow each other on social media so that you can catch up in the not-too-distant future. Just make sure you actually follow up and stay in touch. Don’t collect contacts just for the sake of it. Nurture the connections that matter to you.
7. Mention one of your shared interests/hobbies.
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If you’ve discovered a shared interest or experience during the conversation, use it as a natural segue to wrap things up. Say something like, “I had no idea you were also a fan of K-Pop/true crime documentaries/bird watching. We should definitely compare notes on that sometime. For now, though, I should probably get going.” This not only ends the conversation on a positive note but also lets them know it’s not the last time you’ll be talking (well, hopefully not). It’s a reminder that you have something in common and a reason to connect again in the future.
8. Offer to help with or follow up on something you chatted about.
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If the person mentioned a problem they’re having or a project they’re working on, offer to help (if you’re actually in a position to do so, that is). Say something like, “It sounds like you’re really struggling. I might have some contacts/articles/ideas that could help. Let me look into it and get back to you.” Just make sure this offer isn’t an empty one. They may be relying on you following up!
9. Hit their funny bone.
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Sometimes a little bit of humor can go a long way in bringing a conversation to an end. If you’ve been talking about stuff that’s particularly heavy or serious, try injecting a corny joke or humorous comment to break the tension. Say something like, “Well, I think we’ve solved all the world’s problems in the last hour. We should probably quit while we’re ahead.” Or, “I could talk about this all day, but I don’t want to keep you from your other adventures.” Just make sure your humor is appropriate and not offensive. Read the room and know your audience.
10. Mention getting together in the future.
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If you know you’ll be seeing the person again at a future event or meeting, use that as a natural way to end the conversation. Say something like, “I’m really looking forward to our team retreat next month. It’ll be great to have more time to talk some more.” Or, “I can’t wait to see how your presentation goes at the conference. Let’s definitely catch up afterwards and you can tell me all about it!”
11. Ask for their opinion or advice.
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People love to feel valued and heard. Ending a conversation by asking for their opinion or advice on a specific topic can be a great way to show respect and appreciation. Say something like, “I’ve been struggling with [specific issue] lately. Based on our conversation, it sounds like you have a lot of experience in that area. If you had to give me one piece of advice, what would it be?” This not only ends the conversation on a high note but also might potentially give you some real food for thought in the process!
12. Invite them to walk and talk.
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If you’re enjoying the conversation but need to transition to doing something else, invite the person to join you. Say something like, “I’m about to go grab a coffee/take a walk/check out the exhibit hall. Want to come?” This not only ends the conversation naturally but also shows that you enjoy their company and are happy to keep your connvo going. Just make sure the invitation is genuine and not just a polite gesture. If they turn you down, don’t take it personally.
